Could use some advice.?

My husband's nephew has a child by his exgirlfrien, a 11 month old by his current girlfriend and now she's 4 or 5 months pregnant now. Both by his current girl were unplanned. They wanted an abortion to begin with, but for some reason never made that choice. Now she tells me that she wants to know how she can make herself have a miscarriage b/c neither of them wanted anymore children and cant afford one. I had no idea how to respond to this b/c I think she's outta her mind. Am I the only that thinks this is wrong and if so then what should I have told her. She did ask how I would try to do it if I was pregnant and I responded with: I would never do this to begin with and that if she starts trying to take asprin or other meds that she may just wind up messing her kid up and not taking it's life.